The D/s Cheat Sheet
The Rules: There aren't any.
How to be a submissive: Submit
How to be a dominant: Be a leader.
How to Choose a Dominant or submissive: The same way you would choose anyone to share your life. Carefully.
The difference between a submissive and a slave: Whatever you want it to be. You're going to believe what you want to anyway. (see The Rules)
How to get your submissive to submit: If you have to ask, consider this is not for you or you've chosen the wrong person for you.
Physical pain and D/s: No, you don't have to. No, it doesn't make you less submissive/dominant.
Submission is a gift: Keep in mind we've all gotten crap gifts over the years. Gifts we've thrown away or exchanged. Like beauty, submission is in the eye of the beholder.
The mindset that submissives should be cowed to 'or else', is absurd. "Do what I want or I won't submit"? Get over yourself.
Good luck on your journey,
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